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December 2007 - Posts

  • Its the Season to be Jolly!

    Herself

    As we are part of the adoption circle with many friends spending yet another lonely, childless Christmas, desperate to get back to work as soon as possible it made me reflect on the wonders of family celebrations.

    This year hisself announced that the Christmas tree lights were far too dangerous and could not be used. He was fearing yet another fire and as I refuse to approach any shop, for anything but food in December, our tree went up without lights this year. However we failed to point this out to the dogs. The tree stands in the hall and in the darkness one of the hounds forgot its existence and collided with the the tree. Dog naturally escaped unharmed but the tree fell over breaking in the process every single glass and crystal ornament we had gathered over the years. When finally uprighted it was a sad sight with all these strings attached to a glass hoop and nothing much else.

    Even sadder was the fact that I was in no condition to even bother being upset. As soon as the schools closed I went down with exhaustion and something that made every single bone in my body scream agony. I was more interested in getting the floor cleared so I could make my way back to bed than worrying about the damage. I was so ill that eating was too painful and am now very proud to announce that the festive feast has made me loose another kilo from the waistline.

    Somehow, between the naps, the Christmas dinner got cooked. This is the season we truly bless our multicultural heritage as we have mixed the traditions to get a lovely Yule time for all the family. In Finland people eat Christmas dinner on the Xmas eve and Santa visits shortly after. Which means that by the time you sit down to eat the kids are far too wound up to eat anything and after Santa you cannot get them to bed. As the Xmas church service is next morning at six, you really want them to bed as one must be in church in time to avoid sitting under the chandelier.

    [In that service the churches use the old chandeliers with real candles and it is so beautiful. But candles drip wax and tradition, not to mention the weather, means that most people are wearing fur coats. Real fur coats, not fake ones. Wax on fur leaves rather nasty bold patches on your best piece of mink - not funny at all. If you enter into the church at the right moment you can see everyone seated and clear circles of empty seats have appeared from nowhere just under the chandeliers.]

    Here in UK I found myself kicking the turkey into the oven while Grandparents were having a fantastic time playing with the kids and the new toys, not to mention eating countless sweeties and when it came time to serve up my hours of slave labour in front of the, Aga no-one was that interested, rather more looking forward to a nap in front of the telly.

    So now we eat on Christmas eve, when all are hungry and interested in the food. I cook every wish anyone is willing to make plus our traditional favourites. Santa arrives the next morning leaving me playing all day with my happy children [I have spent the whole day building Lego]. For lunch; a selection of cold meats from the deli counter, heated up extra roast potatoes from the night before and leftover salad. Bingo! No hassle, no stress and no time involved.

    The hot question is: "what did I get from Hisself?", - well he did take me round the livestock on the quad on Xmas morning, all the way to the lamb field frozen pond where I was treated to some doughnuts on the quad [not the eating kind]. That man knows how to show a girl good time!!!! My real present is a day in the sales. Hisself will be looking after the kids while patiently showing interest on every item I try on and then paying for it all without a murmur.

     

  • Frost

    At last some proper weather, - 8C here last night and up to a balmy - 2C during the day. So emptying cattle courts is top priority, not easy with a load a week off to kill just now. Clipping belly's has to be one of the most dangerously unpleasant jobs known to man. Cattle can provide endless ways of getting you injured, their latest method involved one Belgian Blue getting his head stuck in a barrier wrenching it free then charging into the side of the crush with it, an hour later order and the Blue was restored. I will be glad to see him go tomorrow.

    Outside stock is loving this weather with the cows particularly smug as they savour the sunshine and dry bed. They get a mix of silage and wheat straw and mostly leave the straw so a rethink in feed will be required for next year. The ewes are now much easier to feed since the numbers were cut and are still on hay only.

    Herself is busy with preparations for the kids Christmas Ball (senior and junior) which involves kilts, long dresses and in some cases stretch limos. I will see if I can persuade her to blog about it later.

  • Superstition

    Herself's Christmas edition.

    My mother always said, that breaking china brought good luck. After dropping a plate from my grandparent's wedding service the night before my Higher maths exam and achieving a high B, I have been inclined to believe her.

    So I dropped a pie dish while putting it into the dishwasher. That was caused by taking His-self shopping. I buy in bulk, but having No5 strapped to my front lifting 25kg bag of rice or 15kg of washing powder is not as easy as it used to be. So I lure His-self to the wholesalers for the heavier stuff. This time he spotted peppermint tea. After a while he decided to try it and we came home with tester of 160 tea bags. Needless to say, he did not like the taste. Not wanting to waste any, he swapped my usual morning first herbal to peppermint and after a week the "cleansing" effect of was obvious. What used to be my digestive tract was now a giant gas driven machine gun. That is how I came to drop the dish.

    The next morning [Monday it was] No3 [son] got up first, switched on the kitchen light and had an immediate shower of sparks and flame. The strip-light was on fire and the house in darkness, the fuses doing what fuses should in a crisis. No harm done, except the smell and frantic chaos trying to get everyone to school on time in the dark.

    No3 is doing his first year in the Secondary school and his classes include home economics. He is one seriously food allergic child and takes a lot of his own ingredients to the practical cooking classes. The week before they made an upside down cake. He forgot to mention the fact till the last minute. Usually he measures what he needs into plastic bags but I had no option but to send him to school with full packs of his special baking powder, xhantam gum and flour. For some reason he forgot his special pack into the science department later that day.

    This "lucky" Monday he was baking again, but had forgotten to find his ingredient bag from last week. In the panic I had no option but to send him to school with my last bit of cream of tartar and ask in the school office if anyone had handed in the bag he needed.

    While His-self was restoring our kitchen lighting later that morning I got a call from No3 "Mum No1 [son] brought my bag home last week, can you bring it out to me in an hour?"

    I went and I looked - no sign of the bag. I Called No1 [son] "I hear you were really kind and borough No3's stuff home. Where did you put it?" No!1: "Cannot remember, but it is not in any silly place like under my bed." - "Yes son, I know, I looked. Where else could it be?" No1: "In the kitchen." - "Nope." No1: "Maybe I put in in the dog bed or in the bag with my sport shoes?" - "Looked both places, not there. Go find you brother and tell him it cannot be found."

    When No3 came home and I enquired about his day. What a tale I got! The cream of tartar opened in his bag and could not be used. So he made a batch of ordinary muffins and gave them to No2 [daughter] to eat in chemistry revision. He had never imagined that breaking an egg was so difficult - took him 15 minutes.

    My day was yet to get even better. This time a call from a friend. She is a good friend, a sensible woman, a nice person with both personality and sense of humour. Could I look after her daughter for couple of hours. My brain screaming NO and His-self looked like rabbit in the headlights when I heard my mouth uttering "Of course I can." This child is an absolute pain: she goes and lets the dogs run away, she criticises me and especially my ability to clean [I am not saying she is not right there...] and marches through the worst mud in her boots and before I can turn round I find her sitting on the living room sofa, cross legged and with the wellies still ON.

    The lesson of my tale: Peppermint tea can ruin any good omen!

     

     

  • Party

    Sorry I have not had much time for the blog lately. No5 is keeping us all busy. Last week was The Party. Two weeks of frantic cooking, cleaning, painting, repairing and general mayhem in preparation for her baptism. One stott, one pig and a large salmon all played their part as well. The food was magnificent and enjoyed by all, with enough leftovers for a food parcel for grandparents on their return South. All our friends and family attended and it was great to see them.

    The weather up here has been extreme with high winds, high temperatures and massive rainfall, sometimes all at once. I have never seen this farm so wet, even the slopes are awash with water. We winter cattle outside so we have been very busy moving feeders to avoid poaching and soil damage. Frost must come soon, please?

    We still have not received our compensation for FM from the Scottish government. However we have our SFP, so we should be grateful for that. We have cut our sheep numbers, a decision that has proved to be very wise as our buyer has cut the price yet again. We are witnessing the end of the sheep industry due to short-sighted pricing by the supermarkets suppliers.

    The long winter period of maintenance, and renewal is underway. The problem with that is that I cannot find half the tools. No3 [son] is proving to be excellent natural mechanic and has started welding very well at 11. He says it is easy. I am going to have to start buying him his own stuff so he will stop borrowing and hiding mine [he does not trust me with the good stuff].

    I am hoping to get back to the blog a bit more now. It all depends how well No5 sleeps. She is now growing very well and 75% of the British female population will end up shorter than her, she is going to be a big girl! 

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