100-mile walk to raise funds in memory of Borders farmer

A group of 40 friends and family are set to embark on a 100-mile walk along the Kintyre Way in memory of Borders farmer Neil Stewart, who sadly took his own life in June 2024 at the age of 60.

His wife, Caroline, and three children, Victoria, Emily, and Charlie, will embark on the “100 for One” challenge between 2-7 June, almost a year on from Neil’s death.

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“Preparations are going very well. Many of us have been in training for the past few months,” said Caroline. 

“As well as blisters, what will be a real challenge will be the midges. We are hoping lots of repellent will help.” 

The aim is to raise the profile of the mental health support available from the Royal Scottish Agricultural Benevolent Institution (Rsabi) and to raise funds for them.

The charity offers free practical, financial, and emotional support including counselling services.

It has recently appointed a full-time suicide prevention lead, to address the rising suicide rates in agriculture, offering vital support to those at risk.

Neil Stewart © Supplied by the Stewart family

The “100 for One” route

The “100 for One” route will wind its way through the Kintyre peninsula from Tarbert to Machrihanish – an area which held fond memories for Neil.

He had a special connection with Kintyre as it was where his mother came from, and he spent many childhood holidays there.

Later in life, Neil continued to visit the area with his own family and passed on his love of Kintyre to them.

Raising money

The “100 for One” challenge aims to raise awareness of mental health within the farming community and encourage people to #KeepTalking.

It is also raising vital funds for Rsabi’s support services, including its 24/7 helpline (0808 1234 555), and free counselling.

So far the event has raised more than £35,000.

“Neil was deeply loved and is sorely missed,” said Caroline.

“We’ve been so moved by the outpouring of kindness and generosity, from heartfelt messages to incredible donations.

“It is very touching for us all to get a sense of just how much Neil meant and how important people view the work of Rsabi to be.”

To support the Stewarts, donations to Rsabi can be made via JustGiving or to donate £20, text 100FORONE to 70450.

Remembering Neil

“As well as the physical challenge of the 100-mile walk, we very much hope there will also be lots of time to fondly remember Neil, and no doubt some hilarity at times as we share our memories,” Caroline added.

“Neil had a wonderful sense of humour and greatly enjoyed the company of friends and family.

“Along with the sadness of losing him, undertaking this challenge will be a celebration of great friendships and family – both of which Neil held very dear.”

For those unable to make the journey to Kintyre, a local event is being held in Kelso on Sunday 8 June.

Neil and Caroline Stewart (centre) with Victoria, Emily and Charlie © Supplied by the Stewart family

Vital support

Carol McLaren, chief executive of Rsabi, said: “Sadly, suicide remains a significant concern in the farming community, and it is vital that people know that help is available.”

“If you are struggling, please talk to someone about how you are feeling and remember there is always support available.”

If you need help and advice, speak to someone you trust or call one of these helplines:

• Samaritans: 116 123 (available 24/7)
• Breathing Space: 0800 83 85 87 (Monday to Thursday 6pm to 2am, and weekends between Friday 6pm and Monday 6am)
• NHS 24 mental health hub: 111 (available 24/7).

If you are in immediate danger or have the means to cause yourself harm, Rsabi advises to dial 999 and request an ambulance.